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Why Is the Betrayer Willing to Throw Their Marriage and Family Away?
“The reason why I am healed today, the reason why I am no longer stuck, is that I…
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Healthy Affair Prevention Boundaries With the Opposite Sex: How to Protect Your Marriage
One of the most common questions couples ask is: “Is it okay to have friends of the opposite…
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Can Busyness Make Your Marriage Vulnerable to an Affair?
When people think about affair vulnerability in a marriage, they usually think about obvious problems: Sexual dissatisfaction. Being…
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Did I Cause My Spouse’s Affair?
Understanding the Difference Between Marital Problems and Infidelity Question Dear Anne, I feel like I am entering a…
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Preventing Affairs
Editor’s Note (2026) The article below was originally adapted from my book My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing…
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How Affairs Happen: 17 Predictable Stages of Betrayal
One of the most painful questions betrayed spouses ask is: “How could this happen?” How could the person…
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What Appearing on Oprah Taught Us About Why People Cheat
In 2005, Brian and I had the privilege of appearing on The Oprah Winfrey Show in an episode about cheating…
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Introduction to Affairs
If you’ve recently discovered an affair, first of all, I am sorry. I am sorry you even need…
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How Could This Affair Happen to Us?
One of the most common questions I hear from betrayed spouses is: “How could this affair happen to…
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How Could My Spouse Do This to Me?
One of the most painful questions betrayed spouses ask is: “How could my spouse do this to me?”…