Convenient, private relationship coaching via Zoom, telephone, FaceTime, Skype, WhatsApp, or Signal — from anywhere in the world. Our coaching helps you move through affair recovery more quickly, cut through confusion, avoid common mistakes, and make better decisions.
Can My Marriage Be Helped?
If your partner has had an affair
There is still hope to restore your marriage, your family, and your happiness.
If you are the one who had an affair
There is hope to regain their trust — even if they say it can never happen.
If your partner is refusing coaching
There is still tremendous benefit in getting coached, even if it’s alone and without your spouse.
If your partner has already left
You can still pick up the pieces and build a happy, healthy life going forward.
You can have an “even better marriage” than previously imagined. Broken hearts can be healed and broken families restored.
Our Coaching Is Designed to Help You
- Avoid Common Mistakes — Surface-level errors after disclosure cause greater damage than the affair itself.
- Quickly Identify Your Strengths and Challenges — Understand what your marriage has going for it and where the real challenges lie.
- Gain Clear Direction — Know your efforts are moving the relationship forward.
- Understand Both Sides — Both partners feel heard and understood without bias.
- Identify Hidden Issues — Address root causes rather than surface arguments.
- Have Something to Look Forward To — Coaching provides an oasis for being heard and designing your life purposefully.
- Save Time and Agony — Guided healing happens faster and more thoroughly than attempting recovery alone.
The Advantage of Working With the Berchts
Brian and Anne have personally rebuilt their marriage after infidelity. They offer genuine compassion based on lived experience, not theory. They can tag-team coaching to provide perspective from both sides of the betrayal — betrayed or unfaithful partner, husband or wife, introvert or extrovert.
After an introductory session, Brian or Anne designs a program uniquely suited to your situation. Their goal is to empower you, provide clear direction, and give you the skills to heal — and take your marriage to the next level.
Coaching through Beyond Affairs has been one of the most valuable parts of our recovery journey. What helped me most was talking with someone who truly understood what I was experiencing. Having support from people who had walked this road themselves helped me put things into perspective and focus on what I could control.
One of the biggest lessons I learned was that because I was choosing to stay in my marriage, I also needed to do my own healing work. I began ‘acting my way into feelings’ rather than waiting for feelings to come first.
I had struggled with obsessive thoughts after the affair, but learning how to redirect my thinking and focus on healthier patterns has been life-changing.
Today, my husband and I are spending more time together, enjoying each other again, and building a stronger connection with our family. We still have things to work on, but we are in a good place and filled with hope for the future. The coaching, support, and encouragement we received through Beyond Affairs made a tremendous difference in our healing.
– M.B., California