Get all of the teaching sessions from our Healing from Affairs Live Event and follow the Roadmap to Recovery — from the privacy of your own home, on your own schedule.

Is Your Marriage in Crisis After an Affair?

Has your marriage been thrown into a tailspin because of an extramarital affair? Reading this page may be the most important thing you do today — because nothing matters more than saving your family.

We know attending a live event may not be possible for you

  • You don’t want to deal with this sitting in a room full of strangers.
  • The program dates don’t work with your schedule, or are too far away.
  • You need help right now.
  • Travel isn’t feasible.
  • You can’t leave your children for that length of time.
  • You can’t get the time off work.

That’s why we created Healing from Affairs at Home — so you can be guided through the healing of your marriage in complete privacy, working at your own pace and on your own timetable.

Questions We Help You Answer

  • Why did this happen to us?
  • Is it really possible for a couple to recover?
  • How can we stop fighting and start moving forward?
  • How can I ever forgive — or be forgiven?
  • How do I get past the obsessive thoughts and triggers?
  • How will I ever feel good about myself again?
  • How can I ever trust my spouse again?
  • What will be different to ensure this doesn’t happen again?
  • How do we rebuild intimacy after an affair?

For nearly 20 years, we’ve been helping couples and individuals rebuild their marriages and their lives after infidelity. Every healing is nothing short of a miracle.

The Story Behind the Program

On my D-Day, May 15, 2000, my whole world crumbled. In that moment all of my dreams died, my values toppled, and everything I believed about my life turned to rubble. I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t sleep. The days, weeks, and months following were chaos. It took us 2.5 years to put back together the broken pieces of our marriage.

We sought professional help, and we will always be grateful for what we received — but much of the “help” was more damaging than helpful. So after we healed, we asked ourselves: why aren’t professionals willing to address this head on?

We began volunteering to help other couples. We sought mentorship, read stacks of books, and added formal education to our personal experience. In 2005, we launched our first Healing From Affairs Seminar and created a Roadmap for Recovery.

We understand we can’t sit down with everyone for one-on-one coaching, and not everyone can afford the time or money for a live seminar. So we flew to New York City, rented a major film studio, and hired a world-class TV producer to film the program — capturing every bit of wisdom and strategy we share in our live seminars and private coaching sessions.

“We never would have believed it was possible to repair our marriage… a decade later, our relationship is incredible — even better than it was when we first met. We would not be married today if it weren’t for them.”

Julia, Washington

Is There Hope for Your Marriage?

Yes. You don’t have to suffer through the emotional and financial hardships of divorce. You don’t have to tear your family apart.

If you can commit to working through this program, we’ll guide you through the rest — and you can come out on the other side with a marriage that is stronger and more beautiful than you ever thought possible.

90% of couples we work with who are willing to do the work build stronger marriages on the other side. Even those who ultimately choose divorce benefit, because they gain understanding and closure. Whether you stay or go, you still need to heal.

Who This Program Is Not For

Healing From Affairs at Home is the best online resource we know of for recovering from infidelity — but it isn’t for everybody.

  • If you want a quick fix — this isn’t for you. Healing takes real work.
  • If you’re also facing addiction or physical abuse — please work with a trained professional on those issues first.
  • If you’re not willing to look honestly at yourself as well as your spouse — this won’t work.
  • If you can’t commit to honesty with your partner — this course will not work.

But if you’re serious about saving your marriage — let’s get started.

What the Program Covers

  • A proven method for repairing your marriage after an affair
  • 18 coping strategies for dealing with obsessive thoughts and triggers
  • The 3 Biggest Secrets of Communication
  • The 4 Words that are key to rebuilding credibility and trust
  • Secrets to rebuilding your self-esteem after infidelity
  • The “Rules of Engagement” — how to have difficult conversations
  • How and why affairs happen — and how to prevent them from happening again
  • How to tell your spouse about the affair (every step matters)
  • How to rebuild intimacy and a fulfilling relationship

What’s Included

  • Unlimited online access to all learning modules (over 12 hours of HD video, behind a password-protected portal)
  • The Roadmap for Recovery Workbook
  • Two personality assessments to help you understand your communication style
  • The Vulnerability Test — an online tool to uncover root causes of the affair
  • An online copy of Anne’s bestselling book: My Husband’s Affair Became The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me
  • Five bonus reports including: Why Do People Have Affairs?, 12 Steps to Forgiving Infidelity, and Should I Stay or Should I Go?
  • Lifetime access — revisit any module at any time

Program Benefits

  • Work at your own pace, on your own timetable
  • Watch each module as many times as you need, stopping and starting as needed
  • Use the program alone or together with your partner
  • Complete privacy — no group settings, no strangers

“Wanted to let you know you are a godsend! I wish I could put into words how grateful we are. I can live again — I got my life back, my desire to live back.”

Amber, Montana

Ready to Begin?

People often tell us they don’t want to go back to the marriage they had before the affair. We always say: “Don’t worry — you won’t. It’s not even possible.”

Your marriage is going to be worse, or better. That depends on the choice you make today. Beyond Affairs has helped thousands of couples not only recover from infidelity, but go on to have happier, stronger marriages than they ever imagined.

If you’re ready to take the next step, we’d love to talk with you about whether this program is the right fit.

Talk to Our Team

— Anne & Brian Bercht