Dear Anne and Brian,
I hope you are well. It's been a while since we last talked, and I thought it would be good to update you on where we are. First of all, we are still together, working on our marriage. Maybe not as hard as we both would wish, but I think we are making progress every day. But we found love again.
As you may know / remember, there is a child from the affair, and we've been going through the alimony case with a court. I do not have any direct contact with the OW and so I do not have any contacts with the child. But I of course support the child financially.
I am focusing on my family, and my marriage and this is the most important thing for me. We are doing well. The amount of passed time has helped, but I think I have been able to prove to my wife that she is the most important person in the world for me. We see many marriages falling down around us, and we try to help as much as we can, but it is not easy, as you know better than us. We are so happy we managed to move beyond surviving infidelity. We look forward to the future.
I wanted to thank you again for all your help. The seminar was the best thing that could happen to us I am so so thankful!
Warmest regards, J.N. - New York, NY