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Healing From Affairs at Home Program

Healing From Affairs at Home Program

Now you can get all of the teaching sessions from our Healing from Affairs Live Event and follow the Roadmap to Recovery from the privacy of your own home.

Introducing: Healing From Affairs at Home - The Absolute Best, Online Resource to Help Save Your Marriage

Has your marriage been thrown into a tailspin because of an extramarital affair/s?

Then reading this webpage may be the most important thing you do, because nothing is more important than saving your family.

We understand that attending one of our Healing From Affairs Live Events may not be feasible for you because …

  • There is no way you want to deal with this sitting in a room full of strangers.
  • The dates of the program don’t work with your schedule, or they are too far away.
  • You need help right now!
  • The travel is not feasible for you.
  • You are unable to leave your children for that length of time.
  • You can’t get the time off work.

That’s why we created the Healing from Affairs at Home program, where you can be guided through the healing of your marriage in the privacy of your own home, working at your own pace, and on your own timetable.

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  • Why did this happen to us?
  • Is it really possible for a couple to recover?
  • How can we stop fighting and start moving forward?
  • How can I ever forgive? Be forgiven?
  • How can I get past the obsessive thoughts and triggers?
  • How can we get past the anger and the sadness?
  • How will I ever feel good about myself again?
  • How can I ever trust my spouse again? or rebuild trust?
  • What will be different in the future to ensure it doesn't happen again?
  • How do we re-establish a fulfilling sex life?

If you want answers to these questions, this is for you.

For nearly 20 years we’ve been helping couples and individuals rebuild their marriages and their lives after one or both partners had an affair. Every healing is nothing short of a miracle.


On my D-Day, May 15, 2000, my whole world crumbled like a personal 9/11. In that moment all of my dreams died, my values toppled, and everything I believed about my life turned to rubble. I stood frozen staring at my personal ground zero.

I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t sleep. The days, weeks, and months following were chaos. It took us 2.5 years to put back together the broken pieces of our marriage.

During that time, we sought professional help. And we will both always be grateful for the help we did receive, but if we are honest, much of the “help” was more damaging than helpful.

So after we had healed, we looked back on the journey and wondered, what is wrong with the world? This is such a common problem! Why aren’t the professionals willing to address it head on?

We began to volunteer to help other couples. We sought mentorship from professionals. We read stacks and stacks of books. And we added education to our personal experience.

In 2005, we launched our first Healing From Affairs Seminar. We identified the common denominators every couple needs in order to heal. And we created a Roadmap for Recovery.

We understand we can't sit down with everyone for one-on-one coaching. And not everyone can afford the time or money it takes to join us at a live seminar.

So we flew to New York City, rented out a major film studio and hired a world-class TV producer to film Healing From Affairs At Home ...

Then we spent months editing the dozens of hours of film to bring you all of the essential information you need to save your marriage.

The result, we're proud to say, is the single-best online tool to help you heal your marriage after infidelity.

And it includes every bit of wisdom and knowledge we've gathered through our own experiences… and through our nearly two decades of coaching people through affair recovery.

With Healing From Affairs at Home, you get the same information and strategies we share during our live seminars and private coaching sessions, but for a fraction of the cost.

“We never would have believed it was possible to repair our marriage after my husband had his affair. Our life was a complete disaster; our family was falling apart, we were suffering financially, and everything I thought was true about my husband was turning into lies.

And yet, a decade later, our relationship is incredible - even better than it was when we first met.

We understand how to communicate deeply with each other, we trust each other, our sex life is off the charts, our finances are amazing and our life is where it should be. I'm not saying we don't disagree or fight, but we now have the right tools to work things out.

None of this would have been possible without Anne and Brian Bercht. We would not be married today if it weren't for them.”

- Julia, Washington


Yes! You don't have to suffer through the emotional and financial hardships of divorce. You don't have to tear your family apart.

If you can commit to working through this program, we'll guide you through the rest... and you can come out on the other side of this experience with a marriage that is stronger and more beautiful than you ever thought possible.

There is no such thing as a 100% guarantee when it comes to healing your marriage after affairs/s. It does take two – although it often starts with only one.

Whatever the future of your life, we believe the most important thing is to live without regrets. You don’t want to find yourself in some future moment, when the strong emotions of now have subsided, haunted with thoughts of “what if? What if we had tried a little harder? A little longer? What if we had given it an honest effort with the right guidance and the right tools?”

90% of couples we work with, who are willing to do the work, build stronger marriages on the other side. But even those who choose divorce in the end benefit, because they gain understanding and closure. Whether you stay or go, you still need to heal.


While I'm confident Healing From Affairs at Home is the best online resource to help you recover from infidelity, let me be clear...

Healing From Affairs at Home isn't for everybody.

If you're looking for a quick fix for your marriage, I'm sorry to say, this course isn't for you.

Likewise, if you are also facing drug abuse, alcohol, addictions or physical abuse in your marriage you need to work with a trained professional to deal with those issues first.

Likewise, if you just want your spouse to change and you aren't willing to take a good look in the mirror yourself, then this course isn't for you.

And most importantly, if you are not willing to be honest with your partner, this course will not work.

But, if you're serious about saving your marriage, let's get started.


  • The secrets we've learned from saving our own marriage, and counseling thousands of other couples to do the same.
  • A proven method to repairing your marriage after an affair.
  • 18 coping strategies for dealing with obsessive thoughts.
  • The 3 Biggest Secrets of Communication.
  • Free, online access to a proprietary, personality test for you and your spouse.
  • The 4 Words That Are Key to Rebuilding Credibility and Trust (and which trust-destroying behaviors to avoid).
  • Secrets to rebuilding your self-esteem after infidelity.
  • The “Rules of Engagement” – how to have difficult conversations.
  • How to actually tell your spouse about the affair – you need to follow every step of this closely, otherwise things can fall apart.
  • How and why affairs happen.
  • We even discuss how to introduce sex back into your relationship after an affair.

But that's just a small sampling of the important and comprehensive topics we cover in Healing From Affairs at Home.

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  • You can watch each module as many times as you'd like (stopping and starting as needed)... so you can fully understand and best use the techniques we discuss.
  • You can work at your own pace.
  • You can choose to use Healing From Affairs At Home alone or with your partner.
  • You'll have access forever.
  • After you heal your marriage, you can still revisit any topics you'd like if any issues arise.

"Wanted to let you know you are a godsend! I wish I could put into words how grateful we are for you guys, your amazing knowledge and passion for helping others. I have tried to explain to others the change that occurred within myself while we took your program, and it leaves me speechless. How do you put it into words? I can live again, I got my life back, my desire to live back."

- Amber, Montana


For comparison one hour of marriage counseling with a therapist can cost upwards of $200 an hour. And it can take years of therapy to heal. But let's say you go to counseling once a week for a year... that's $10,000.

It's tough to risk that much money without even knowing if therapy will work. Again, infidelity is a specific problem and many therapists don't have the tools needed to fix it.

And there are lots of self-proclaimed “marriage experts” charging thousands of dollars for live workshops of questionable value (we know because many couples find us after attending other workshops without success).

Our own Healing From Affairs weekend costs $3,200 to attend.

Healing From Affairs at Home costs only a fraction while still providing the same valuable information.

We used to offer a DVD training course that we'd send customers in the mail... even that cost $525.

But with Healing From Affairs at Home, you'll get even more value.

Our phone coaching rate is $225 per hour. In 5 sessions ($1125), we can hardly make a dent in providing you with all the tools and information that is available to you in the Healing From Affairs at Home Program.

So how much does Healing From Affairs Online cost?

Only $997

In the end, I am not sure you can put a price tag on healing your marriage.

Plus, once you purchase Healing from Affairs at Home, you will be given the opportunity to join our exclusive, private & confidential online community which will give you the interaction that is often key to success, where you’ll be able to ask questions, join weekly Q&A’s, and interact with other couples if you desire to do so.

In the “Beyond Affairs Community” you can join live calls with Brian and Anne every week on Monday’s, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays with topics that cover every aspect of recovery as well as how to strengthen your marriage. And we will offer special bonus courses at no additional cost to our private online community members.

The cost of this additional membership should you choose is only $49 per month. You can join at any time, and you can also cancel your membership at any time.


  • Unlimited online access to the Healing from Affairs at Home learning modules (over 12 hours of HD video). We host these videos online (behind a password-protected paywall), so you can access them at any time.
  • The Roadmap for Recovery Workbook
  • 2 personality tests (a $90 value) to help you learn your personal communication style
  • An online assessment tool – the Vulnerability Test - to help you uncover the root causes of the affair – and prevent future affairs (a $29 value)
  • An online copy of my bestselling book – My Husband's Affair Became The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me (a $27 value)
  • Special opportunity to join our exclusive Beyond Affairs online community (includes weekly live Q&A’s with Brian & Anne) for only $49 per month
Beyond Affairs special report titled Why Do People Have Affairs

Why Do People Have Affairs?
A $19 VALUE...

Beyond Affairs special report titled 12 Steps to Forgiving Infidelity

12 Steps to Forgiving Infidelity
A $19 VALUE...

Beyond Affairs special report titled Should I Stay or Should I Go for betrayed women or men

Should I Stay or Should I Go?
A $19 VALUE...

Beyond Affairs special report titled Surviving Affairs The two common mistakes you must avoid if you want to heal your marriage

Surviving Affairs – The two common mistakes you must avoid if you want to heal your marriage
A $19 VALUE...

Beyond Affairs special report titled Once A Cheater Always A Cheater

Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
A $19 VALUE...

Plus, should you decided to attend the Healing From Affairs Live Event, we will credit the full $997 towards your registration, so the program is free if you should also decide to attend in person as well.

People often tell us they don't want to go back to the marriage they had before.

We always say, “Don't worry, you won't... it's not even possible.”

Your marriage is either going to be worse, or better.

And that depends on the choice you make today.

Beyond Affairs has helped thousands of couples not only recover from infidelity, but go on to have better, happier marriages than ever before.

I hope Healing From Affairs at Home will do the same for you.

Anne & Brian Bercht

Get Started with Healing From Affairs at Home for Only $997 (a 65% discount)

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