September 10, 2014 - How do you know if there is still hope for your marriage? When is it time to cut your losses?
The first thing we want you to know is that there is always hope for your marriage. A theme that runs throughout our book is, “It ain’t over ‘til it’s over!”
The person having the affair can be on the fence for a while.
But it's your decision. If your gut instinct is telling you to go, then you can go?
I wish there was an exact formula and that we could tell you if you’ve tried for x number of days, months or years, it’s time to go, but there is no such magic answer.
Sometimes couples even divorce and remarry. We’ve had couples come to Healing from Affairs already divorced, and then later chose to remarry. Later they sent their wedding photo, with their own children as the flower girl and ring bearer.
There is hope for your relationship because you have the ability to change. You can change yourself, which then changes the circumstances.
If you’ve been unfaithful, perhaps you recognize the gravity of the crime you committed against the relationship. You may be doing all you can to change your marriage, but your betrayed spouse isn’t responding very well …. yet.
When you keep making your changes in time your betrayed spouse to reconsider the relationship. And no matter what, when you do the right thing, it will come back to you.
You can be hopeful because you have the ability to adjust who you are, and change things in your life.
This is just the introduction. To listen to this tele-seminar, click on the audio link above. (You can click on the embedded audio file, or the text link to have it open in a new webpage.)