Category Archives: Discovery – Disclosure

How do you know if there is hope for your marriage after betrayal? – A discussion with Brian & Anne Bercht, and some of the people they have worked with. There is always hope for your marriage after betrayal if both people are willing to give the marriage a chance and do their own part […]

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Healing from an Affair? No matter how impossible things may seem right now, I want to encourage you not to give up on your marriage too soon. Divorce may seem like the simplest route. It may to you, based on things that have been said and done, be the “only” route. But a theme that runs […]

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Healing from Affairs Dear Anne, I’m devastated. I just found out my husband’s having an affair, and I can barely function. I am shocked. My husband was a good man and we had a good marriage. I’ve been completely blindsided by this and I feel like an utter fool. I guess, I’ve always judged others […]

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I Just Found Out My Husband is Having an Affair! You are Not Alone – Unfortunately Extramarital Affairs are Common Dear Fellow Affair Survivors, Last night was quite different than all the other meetings that we have had, simply due to the group being so much larger. We were glad to have a number of […]

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(These words were written by one affair survivor at three o’clock in the morning, the night her husband confessed his affairs about disclosure and recovering from an affair.) Disclosure and Recovering from an Affair So finally – the truth. I am relieved as I am nauseous…I feel more pity for him then sadness for me…fear […]

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Question #1 – I found out that my husband continued his affair. I phoned the other woman. She was relieved to speak to me. Not only do unfaithful spouses manipulate the wife they manipulate the other woman too. She says she has never had feelings like that for anyone ever. What do I do with […]

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QUESTION: Our children are ages 11 and 13. Since I found out about my husband’s affair, unfortunately I know there are times when they have overheard us arguing, and I feel ashamed about that. I’m afraid they may have overheard the word “affair.” Should we talk to our children about the affair? There is no […]

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There is often a desire NOT to have your grown children know. However in the final end being honest with our children about these things tends to have the opposite effect than we initially think. That said timing is important. Here are some benefits and why you should tell your adult children about the affair […]

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Consult not your fears but your hopes and your dreams. Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what it is still possible for you to do. – Pope John XXIII “To give up. God! What a bell of freedom that […]

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Should you tell others about your spouse’s affair? This is a personal decision, and there is certainly no one size fits all answer. As with all issues pertaining to affairs, I recommend that you get as much perspective as possible, and then decide for yourself. In the final end, the only one who will live […]

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