Beyond Affairs Teleseminars

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Click here to listen to the September 2, 2010 Teleseminar
This teleseminar focuses on healing alone, when the marriage doesn't stay together. Not everyone chooses to heal their marriage, not everyone is given that choice to make in the first place, and sometimes staying in the marriage isn't the right choice, because the unfaithful spouse is not willing to do the necessary work on themselves. Coach Gayle, who was divorced after 35 years of marriage, and walked that journey of healing alone, shares how she did it. (Please overlook my mistake when opening the teleseminar when I say the topic is healing the marriage alone - it's not. It's healing alone. - Anne)

Click here to listen to the August 10, 2010 teleseminar
1. What is self-respect?
2. Dealing with workplace affairs ... how do you heal when your spouse is still working with their affair partner?
3. When I talk to my unfaithful spouse about my need to heal, he rolls his eyes and gets aggravated, telling me I need to just get over it. How do I get him to understand my needs in healing? How do I get him to participate with me in the healing journey?
4. My marriage has failed, but I still struggle with thoughts of desiring for it to be restored. How do I get beyond longing for my marriage to be restored ... hoping it will be one day? How do I deal with these thoughts?
5. Final important thoughts on healing.

Click here to listen to the July 2, 2010 teleseminar
- Making decisions when you're between a rock and a hard place, and no option seems acceptable

Click here to listen to the June 23, 2010 teleseminar
- How can you know for sure if the affair is over?
- How can you trust again?
- How can you ever feel safe and secure again?

Click here to listen to the June 14, 2010 teleseminar
- Should you stay or should you go?
- setting healthy boundaries & giving ultimatums
- What do you do if the betrayed spouse wants to end the marriage, but the betrayer does not?

Click here to listen to the June 7, 2010 teleseminar
The essential keys to rebuilding a marriage with Tim & Diana Journy

Click here to listen to the June 3, 2010 teleseminar

Click here to listen to the May 25, 2010 teleseminar
This call is discussing "Forgiving Yourself." This call will mostly be focused towards; how we as betrayed spouses might forgive ourselves. Do we even need to forgive ourselves? After all we didn't have the affair! Some betrayed spouses tell me they have a hard time forgiving themselves for not really confronting issues sooner.

Click here to listen to the May 17, 2010 teleseminar
Question/Answer session
1. What do you do when your unfaithful spouse won't admit anything & keeps lying?
2. Does the unfaithful spouse always morn the loss of the affair? Are they lying if they say the other person didn't mean anything to them?
3. How do you reconnect sexually? How do you get the mental images of your spouse with another person out of your head? Are you being compared to the other person? Wasn't the other person better, that my spouse would risk losing everything to be with them? How do you get past the sexual performance anxiety?
- And more ...

Click here to listen to the April 14, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Greg & Daphne share their story. She had the affair. This couple healed their relationship incredibly quickly. Find out the secret to their expedited healing. (It takes about 4 minutes for this call to get going. In the first 4 minutes there is a lot of static, which is corrected 4 minutes in. Feel free to fast forward slightly.)

Click here to listen to the March 23, 2010 teleseminar
Coach Gayle shares her story. After 35 years of marriage, her pastor/evangelist husband left her and married a younger woman. It was not an easy journey. Today she is 98% healed. Find out how her faith in God and many other things helped her heal, and can help you heal too. (It takes 4 minutes from start of recording for this teleseminar to get going.)

Click here to listen to the March 15, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Dan & Laura share their story. He took months after disclosure to end his affair. She followed her heart and hung on to their love, when everything else said quit. Find out how together they beat the odds.

Click here to listen to the March 11, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Tim & Diana share their story. Find out how a soft woman applied tough love and it became their turning point.

Click here to listen to the March 3, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Tim & Julie share their story. He cheated with a friend of hers.

Click here to listen to the February 26, 2010 telesemiar
How do you motivate your husband to talk?

Click here to listen to the February 24, 2010 teleseminar
This is a Question/Answer session. All questions were from betrayed spouses. Many of them, their unfaithful spouses were not doing the right things to help heal the marriage, and some were working to heal alone.

Click here to listen to the February 23, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Guy & Tammie share their story of how they healed their marriage after his
affair. Could a controlled separation be the right choice for you?

Click here to listen to the February 22, 2010 teleseminar
The topic of discussion is Tiger Woods confession

Click here to listen to the February 16, 2010 teleseminar
Questions addressed in this teleseminar include:
How do you love and respect yourself for staying?
How do you deal with repeat affairs and broken promises?
My spouse left their affair partner and moved back home. How come I don't feel better?
We are not dealing with our underlying issues. How do we get this turned around?
Does your spouse think of their affair partner, while having sex with you?
What do I do when my spouse says I just need to choose to "get over it?"
My spouse ended their affair and promised it will never happen again. Why do I still hurt?
Are lie detectors a good idea?
Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater?

Click here to listen to the November 10, 2009 teleseminar
This is one of our best teleseminars. It is 2 hours long and includes lots of interaction and relevant affair recovery questions from participants.

Click here to listen to the November 2, 2009 teleseminar
How do you know if there's hope for your marriage to heal?
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)

Click here to listen to the October 29, 2009 teleseminar
How to talk to each other without causing further damage to your relationship
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)

Click here to listen to the September 24, 2009 teleseminar
A Road Map for Recovery: For couples struggling to heal their marriage after an affair.
Hear from both sides! What are the needs of both the one who had the affair, and the one who has been injured?

Click here to listen to the July 30, 2009 teleseminar
On this call we discussed ways to deal with obsessive thoughts and triggers.

Click here to listen to the July 28, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to an interview of a couple where the unfaithful husband took a long time to give up contact with his affair partner, but still, in time, they were able to heal their marriage.
-Find out why it was so difficult for the husband to give up his affair
-What finally brought about the needed changes
-How did the wife cope

Click here to listen to the July 22, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to 2 couples candidly share their stories of how they healed,
when the wife was the one who had the affair.

Click here to listen to the June 30, 2009 teleseminar
This call focus's on helping the spouse who had the affair,
and is working towards healing the marriage.
What it takes for the one who had the affair to heal?
What are the struggles those who've had affairs face?
What can be done to move beyond those struggles?
What is the unfaithful's role and responsibility in healing?
What steps can the unfaithful spouse take toward healing the marriage?
Questions like: Will my spouse ever forgive me?

Click here to listen to the June 17, 2009 teleseminar
How can you separate or divorce with dignity?
How do you deal with an affair, if the betrayed spouse ends up with a life-threatening STD as a result?
Can you regain love for your unfaithful spouse if you don’t feel it anymore?
Why doesn’t my unfaithful spouse initiate conversations to help with healing the affair?
Should an affair be kept a secret and dealt with privately, or is this approach damaging for the relationship? When the unfaithful spouse says “I love you, I’m just not in love with you,” what's really going on?
Why is it more difficult to heal if the affair has been kept a secret for years?
How do you deal with your children during affair recovery?
How do you trust/rebuild trust again?
and more questions answered!

Listen to the May 27, 2009 teleseminar
Guy & Tammie talk about finding your own journey through your healing.
They also talk about how truth, time and separating the "person"
from the "behaviour" was their keys for healing.

Listen to the May 26, 2009 teleseminar
Tim & Diana share their story of how giving up the pain was their road to healing.

Click here to listen to the April 21, 2009 teleseminar
2 couples, Tim & Diana, plus Tim & Julie, are interviewed by Brian and Anne. They candidly share their experiences - how they healed their marriages after an affair.

Listen to the January 22, 2009 teleseminar - Brian & Anne answer live questions!!

Listen to the January 20, 2009 teleseminar - Brian & Anne share the 9 Important Keys to Healing a Marriage After an Affair.

Listen to the Dec. 23 - 2008 teleseminar! Hear from Jeff & Mary and Jack & Karen, couples who have attended the Healing From Affairs weekend in December 2008. Find out what they have to say about the weekend, and hear first hand some of the things they've learned through their own healing experiences, and what they wish they would've known and understood much sooner.

Listen to the Nov. 4 - 2008 teleseminar with Brian and Anne! Two other couples also candidly share their experiences of healing their marriages after an affair. Also some excellent down to earth questions from people "in the trenches" of trying to heal after an affair. Real people. Real problems. Real answers. Listen Now!

Listen to the tele-seminar on how to heal from an affair - Oct. 22-2008 - This call features Tim & Julie who are almost 100% healed from the affair in their marriage. Also Guy and Tammie share, who are 3 years beyond his affair. Learn about how to tell the truth, how much truth to tell, and when, and lots more!