Category Archives: How to Rebuild Your Marriage

Is staying in a marriage after an affair stupid?  By Anne Bercht Question: Dear Anne, The issue that has concerned me currently is the constant political talk on the news of late, about spouses who decide to stay or reconcile a marriage after an affair has been discovered and calling those spouses “stupid” for doing […]

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… after an affair??? This special post is for you! Are you tired of the pain? Are you ready to let go and be free? Do you wish your spouse would just listen to you? TO THE BETRAYED … Are you beside yourself with anger? Does it feel impossible to ever move beyond so much pain? […]

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What if your unfaithful spouse won’t discuss the affair? Dear Brian and Anne, You say if you want to save your marriage after adultery, you need to be able to talk about the affair. I was reading your article about building trust again after an affair. It is really helping me; I have just discovered […]

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Question: I found out about my husbands affair 2 1/2 years ago. It lasted for a long time. He did some really cruel things. I had a nervous breakdown. I was so devastated. I believe he has had multiple affairs. He basically said, I am sorry. That’s it. He thinks I should just be over […]

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Dear Anne – It’s been 6 months since I discovered my husband’s affair and my life fell apart. My husband thinks I should be over it by now and doesn’t understand why I feel sad, why I don’t trust him, or why I want to talk about his affair. My unfaithful spouse refuses and doesn’t […]

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Question: Dear Anne – I am really struggling with healing a marriage after an affair. We seem to be up and down. I love him so much, and a part of me wants our marriage more than anything and wants to keep our family together. But then I think about the affair, the other woman, all the lies and […]

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9 Important Keys for Healing a Marriage After an Affair by Brian and Anne Bercht The healing journey begins with hope. You need to know and believe you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. It does take two. Some people think you can never get over it. That’s not true. […]

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QUESTION: HOW TO BE A BETTER HUSBAND? About two years ago my wife began working at home which meant any social contact had been cut and the only outlet she found was Facebook. Long story short, I found out my wife had been “chatting” with an old crush from when she was ten years old. […]

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Your marriage does not have to be over. One theme that runs throughout my book, “My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me,” is It ain’t over ‘til it’s over! Separation after an affair is always an option – but it does not have to be the road you choose to […]

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Question #1: My husband had an affair with a work colleague. He has chosen to stay with me and our children. He still sees her and talks to her about work – even on her cell phone, he doesn’t hide it from me – how do I get him to understand that this must stop […]

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