Category Archives: Forgiveness

How Do You Forgive Yourself for Having An Affair? Guilt & Shame vs. Remorse & Repentance (An article for and from the unfaithful spouse) Are you struggling with self-forgiveness? Do you wonder …. How do you forgive yourself for having an affair? How do I forgive myself for what I’ve done? What about my overwhelming […]

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12 Steps to Forgiving Infidelity Forgiveness seems almost unnatural. Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for their wrongs. Understanding What Forgiveness Is Webster’s dictionary defines forgiveness this way: To give up resentment against; stop being angry with; pardon; give up all claim to punish; overlook; cancel a debt. That’s an awful lot […]

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QUESTION: What IS forgiveness?  Is it never bringing up the ‘what happened’?  Is it never wanting to think about it again?  Is it trusting the person?  I keep hearing it is for yourself and not the other person but what do you get when you find whatever IT is?  I feel I need to get […]

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“The difference between holding on to a hurt or releasing it with forgiveness is like the difference between laying your head down at night on a pillow filled with thorns or a pillow filled with rose petals.” Loren Fincher More Stories from the Heart Forgiveness is setting a prisoner free. The surprise is once you […]

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By Anne Bercht – October 7, 2013 Teleseminar – Listen Now! – A View into the Mind of the Unfaithful – Sept 24, 2013 Teleseminar – July 16, 2013 – The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity What defines an affair? Why do people cheat? How do you rebuild? How do you build a strong marriage in […]

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