Category Archives: For the Unfaithful Spouse

Dear Anne & Brian, “My spouse had a very traumatic childhood and my affair has triggered the buried feelings of rejection and abandonment. Since having attended Healing From Affairs, I have been able to understand and communicate how and why the affair happened and discuss it with my spouse. My spouse has decided to stay […]

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September 3, 2014 – When you fall in love with your affair partner When a person who is caught up in the affair is still caught up in the affair, they usually feel they are in love with their affair partner. Later, when an affair ends, they usually come to the realization that they were not […]

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January 30, 2013 – Healing your marriage after your affair. Here are the questions that were addressed (posed by participants) in this audio seminar: How do I know if I should give my marriage a chance? How do we discuss the painful details of the affair in a way that promotes healing? How do I […]

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First Steps for Healing Your Marriage from Your Affair (While this article is written by a wife who had an affair and successfully healed her marriage, the information that follows is mostly gender neutral, and is relevant regardless of who had the affair.) If your affair has recently been discovered by your husband, or if […]

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Question: In regards to your statement on your website: (listed below), I would like to know how you were able to “live in the present” and still discuss the affair over and over as needed? How do you put an affair behind you if you must continue to discuss it? “Another thing that helped me […]

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Question: Dear Anne – I have admitted to an affair. Part of my plan to gain trust is to contact the girl I had an affair with (who is absolutely no longer in my life). My wife wants me to convince this woman to send her any emails she may have kept that we sent […]

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