Category Archives: Communication

How to talk about the affair? – How come he/she didn’t love me? Below is a snippet of a seminar follow-up conversation with some participants. Our Healing from Affairs seminar includes 6 follow-up sessions done over 12 weeks following the seminar. I thought this snippet would be really valuable for everyone healing from affairs. I hear the […]

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Question: Dear Brian and Anne, I was reading your article about building trust again after an affair. It is really helping me; I have just discovered that my husband had an emotional affair with his colleague. We talked about it and my husband apologised and promised it will not happen again. My problem is that […]

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There is a gender difference between men and women when it comes to talking. Some experts say a woman needs to speak 25,000 words a day, while a man needs only to speak 10,000 words a day. Most men tend to use up their 10,000 words at work, leaving them quiet (and often just wanting […]

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Dear Anne & Brian, My husband and I are working to heal our marriage after an affair. In spite of it all, I know I love my husband, and I know he loves me. I just don’t understand how he could’ve loved me and still did what he did. Even with all this good will […]

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