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Why Do People Have Affairs? By Peggy Vaughn 1. Who Has Affairs? We tend to think that only bad people have affairs or only people in bad relationships. But no one is immune from an affair. Monogamy is something most people say they believe in and want for themselves. Every survey ever done on this […]   Read more »

Dear Marital Affair Survivor, How do you go about creating a happy life after an affair? That is exactly what I have been able to do and I believe it is possible for everyone, whether they stay in the marriage or not, but it will definitely take some time and some hard work. I like […]   Read more »

I Just Found Out My Husband is Having an Affair! You are Not Alone – Unfortunately Extramarital Affairs are Common Dear Fellow Affair Survivors, Last night was quite different than all the other meetings that we have had, simply due to the group being so much larger. We were glad to have a number of […]   Read more »

Myths and Facts About Extramarital Affairs (The following are some myths and facts about extramarital affairs which are based on research done by Dr. Shirley Glass, Ph. D.)   Myth: Affairs happen in unhappy or unloving marriages. Fact: Affairs can happen in good marriages. Affairs are less about love and more about sliding across boundaries. […]   Read more »

12 Steps to Forgiving Infidelity Forgiveness seems almost unnatural. Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for their wrongs. Understanding What Forgiveness Is Webster’s dictionary defines forgiveness this way: To give up resentment against; stop being angry with; pardon; give up all claim to punish; overlook; cancel a debt. That’s an awful lot […]   Read more »

Top 10 Signs of Infidelity by Anne Bercht So you feel suspicious that your spouse may be having an extramarital affair, and now you find yourself wondering ‘what are the signs of infidelity?’ Statistically more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, and many more than that have to deal with the devastation and after […]   Read more »

(These words were written by one affair survivor at three o’clock in the morning, the night her husband confessed his affairs about disclosure and recovering from an affair.) Disclosure and Recovering from an Affair So finally – the truth. I am relieved as I am nauseous…I feel more pity for him then sadness for me…fear […]   Read more »

What are the unique challenges these husbands & wives face? (Please note: anytime gender differences between men and women are discussed, these are generalizations. There are always exceptions to the rule.) A husband and wife sit in our office beside each other on the sofa. She is pregnant with the other man’s child. “I don’t […]   Read more »

Question: I appreciate your honesty and sharing, but am struggling deeply with your choice of a title. Personal growth and growth of a couple after an affair are positive outcomes of a horrible occurrence. But I don’t ever think we should say that an affair became the “BEST” thing that ever happened to us. If […]   Read more »

Brian: After nearly two decades of marriage to a sexy, loving woman – with whom I made love almost nightly – I came home from work one evening and told her I was moving out, leaving her for another woman. Lucky for me, my wife refused to give up on our marriage, and my “moving […]   Read more »