How do you stay positive while healing from an affair?

How do you stay positive?

February 28, 2012 – Affair Recovery Q & A Session

  • How do you stay on a positive path while healing?
  • Do you need to know all the details of the affair to heal?
  • What kind of questions should you be asking?
  • Are some men just serial cheaters? (so there’s no hope?)
  • How do you get beyond the bitterness? (wanting my ex and his/her new lover to be miserable)
  • How do you deal with friends & family?
  • What do you tell your children? (who resent the unfaithful parent for the impact the affair has had)
  • My unfaithful spouse says they don’t know why they cheated. Is that possible?
  • Why do people have affairs?
  • How many lies are too many?
  • How do you know if your unfaithful spouse is telling the truth?
  • How do you tell your children? (young teens)
  • Should you meet the OW/OM?
  • Is the desire to look up the 3rd party on facebook a problem?
  • How long does it take to forgive myself? (for being a fool)